Not many folks have heard of Gackt, but among fans of Japanese music, he is indeed very popular.  Initially we had published an article (sort of a love letter to Gackt) by one of our readers and in response to that we have received a very emotional message from Miriam, which I think I should publish here.

"Wow dude! I can't belive you have the guts to even write about it.  You are so creative.  Gosh! If I would say something so hot to GACKT in a letter like that, I wouldn't show my face anywhere.  Just the thought of thinking of him gives me the willies.  I am a Mexican American and I totaly agree that he would be safe in Mexico.  To tell you the truth, you are the first Mexican girl I know who is a fan of sexy Gackt other than myself.  My three best friends make fun of me by saying that he looks like a girl. Errr!"

So if you have never heard of Gackt it may be good time to check him out.  Though he is often thought of as a gay in Japan, he is probably not based on what we know.

Ryann, a 17-year old in Virginia, has a problem that almost all teenagers face - the love of their life is not the most favorite person of their parents.  "I have been going out with David for almost two years.  We don't go anywhere together much since he is always working but when he gets off, we have the best time of our life together.  But some time ago he gave me the hickys and my mom don't trust him any more.  However, I am still in love with him but I want to let him go.  I don't want to go out with a boy that my mom don't trust but he lives right next door, so I don't know how to break up with him.  Please help," she asks.  (Related article:  When should you breakup?)

I know you are in such a tricky situation, but if that is what is good for you, then you must do it.  The right way to handle a breakup is to be direct and honest with him.  Just tell him that you do not think that you two have a future together and it is best that you end the relationship.  Since you also happen to be next door neighbors, clearly it is not a good idea to be mean and nasty.  In fact you can continue to be good neighbors/friends but in any case you both must puruse new relationships.  Here are a few helpful articles on how to breakup and move on.

How to breakup without hurting your partner?

Finding happiness after breakup

Learn from each breakup

Clean breakup techniques

An elegant way to breakup

Breakup and move on

Sometime ago we had done a story on the topic of making a man more desirable to women by creating an impression that he is popular among other women.  The idea was that if a man showed up in a bar, for instance, with lipstick on his cheek, then other women would find him even more attractive, because he has been "pre-approved" by another woman.

Katrina, a contributor to MYNIPPON, disagrees.  "The lipstick on cheek strategy seems like it's more to show off to men than women.  These hard-to-get strategies, where the man is supposedly in high demand, seems like it was conceived by a man and is only there to impress other men.  At the same time, women are often competing with each other - they often do go out to check out what other women are wearing, etc.  If people are interested in attracting a quality mate and not just being a player and playing games, then show it's about honesty and having common interests and doing things that you really do - whether taking a certain political science class or joining a ski club.

I came back from the weekend and when we took an inventory of the images that we received for our feature "sexy woman," we were overwhelmed.  But we did manage to pick the best.

What you will notice though is that when you wear a white bikini, and when you get wet, it becomes sheer.  And that is why you might be able to notice her dark, huge nips and the shape of her private parts through the bikini bottom.

Ronnie, a single white male, as he says he is, is interested in dating Asian women, particularly Korean girls and some Japanese girls.  "But I wonder if that is weird because people make big a deal about my choice.  Plus I have trouble asking them out because I am shy and I am afraid that they may not want to date someone from a different race.  Please help," he writes.

You are a perfectly normal guy and it is nothing weird to be attracted to certain kind of women.  Interracial dating is the hottest thing right now.  So just ask a girl that you like and go from there.  A lot of mature women from Asia want to date young men from the west - so that is another option for you to get to know Asian women better.  And do not stop even if you get rejected a couple of time.  Eventually, you will click with someone and everything will work out OK.

Here is a helpful article to overcome your shyness.

Related article:  Dating Asian men

In response to our article on how to please men in bed, Kayla asks, "I mean we're both very creative in our sexy life and we enjoy it but I want to surprise him by spicing things up a bit in bed. Is there any kind of positions that would really turn him on?"

So what have you tried?

In selecting our sexy woman and hot couple of the day, we saw some interesting coincidences.  For instance, women in both cases wearing tank tops, letting their bra straps show, and wearing a bra that is of a color that is in total contrast to the top.

Our sexy woman does have a large chest and that is why she is able to create such a great cleavage.  We could not find out if it was natural or the magic of breast augmentation.

If you are one of those webmasters that is obesessed with PageRank (I am not, but I do take a look for entertainment purposes), then you probably watch your Google toolbar carefully every time there is an update.  Guess what?  This blog that I have had for less than a month got a PR of 4 and I never bothered to get any incoming links.  I also got over 5,000 visitors to this blog in less than a month and that is awesome.  How did I do it?  Here are two helpful articles that also drive the philosophy of our websites.

How to achieve high PageRank?

How to increase popularity of your website?

When we pick our sexy women each day, you would think that it is a fun job.  Indeed, it is, but it ain't easy since there are so many good-looking, hot women who send their pictures to us and we have to pick just one.

Let's take a look at our selection for today.  First, she thinks pink is the hottest color, and it is.  Then here small breasts were, she tells us, enhanced by breast augmentation surgery.  In fact while the camisole that she is wearing has a built-in bra, there was another photo that she sent in which she was braless, and wow, what a look.  Her panties are pretty interesting though I would have loved to see her in thongs.  One thing that I did not like about her though was her dark armpits.

In summary, while FHM, Maxim, Blender, and Playboy do a great job at selecting, we didn't do a bad job either.

If you are tired of going to a movie or to a restaurant on a date, you are not alone.  I hate the whole idea of eating a big meal in a restaurant trying to look like a gentleman.  So Lisa has some great ideas on cheap and interesting dates.

Please comment with your date ideas.

I vote the deciding vote today on our daily sexy woman.  You might wonder what was that I liked so much.  I was literally seduced by the way she is untying her bikini top - she is not done yet, but just the anticipation is impressive enough.

Merck must be hating a lot of people these days.  After all, it is being sued by over 100,000 people.  It can add another one and this is a pretty powerful one.  A group called PCRM.  Ironically enough they oppose drug testing on animals and Merck basically used data from animals to say that the drug was safe for humans.  While I oppose mistreatment of animals but I also thought that we were slightly different from animals.  So it appears that in Merck's opinion, I can go to a vet and ask for a prescription.  PCRM does not take its job lightly.  Instead PCRM has sued Merck.

I am sure that men like me (touching 40) worry about aging all the time, but what if you are only 14 and looking "old."  That is exactly what is bothering Samuel, who sleeps on average 8 hours a day  on  weekdays, and even 10 on weekends.  But, he asks,"I always have bags under my eyes.  My eyes look droopy and tired, even in the afternoon.  I feel energetic and fresh, but I still have the eyebags. I don't want surgery or anything like that. WHAT CAN I DO?"

It is somewhat strange that someone young like you has eye bags.  Here are few things to think about.  Are you sleeping well or just sleeping?  If you feel tired or drowsy, you may not be sleeping well.  The other problem could be that you may not be drinking enough water.  Drink as much water as you can, but definitely, 6-8 glasses, and even more if you sweat during the day.  A lot of trips to the bathroom, but water is a must during summer months. 

And are you sure that these are eye bags?  Ask a family member to take a look and tell you what is going on.  Finally, if you see no improvement or don't know what to do, you must speak to your family doctor.  Skinceuticals are another solution to consider.

If you are a hard-working webmaster like me, you probably must have seen that your hard work is not paying off in some cases as some crook tries to cheat and gets a higher placement in Google search (By the way I don't even bother about Yahoo and MSN since they are so small compared to Google and so full of SPAM, that very soon not many people will be searching there).

Now there is a solution - Complain to Google.  And it works.  If you think that Google's search results are showing websites that should not be there (because they are using dirty tricks), simply report them to Google.  It may take a few days or weeks, but Google will eliminate them.  And if you think that you can screw your competitors by using this, forget it.  Google has smarter enginers!  Here is the link to report crooks and spam to Google.

Now a lot of men do wear a woman's lingerie - in most cases with the full knowledge and even cooperation of their partner. Others just think that men's boxers are not exciting enough and try out something cute and sexy. But does that make them gay? At least that is what a woman who wrote to me wants to find out. She enjoys the whole thing but is afraid that he may be gay.

There is nothing new about plastic surgery.  Procedures like tummy tucks, liposuction, gastric bypass surgery, nose job or rhinoplasty, breast augmentation, and laser mole removal have been around for a long time, but it seems that there is no limit to what women want and what plastic surgeons are capable of and willing to do.

First, it was bleaching of the private parts (You know some women don't like it dark down there).  Then came labiaplasty (a surgery to make the lips down there look pretty).  And now comes vaginoplasty (a procedure to literally give you a new organ that is tighter and prettier).  Hmmm...

I know saving is hard to do when there are such tempting sales everywhere.  For instance, the other day I went to Target, and they had some things at 90% off.  Ended up buying a lot of stuff that I don't need, but well, it was cheap.

So have you thought of some retirement planning?  Prudential Financial has some new tips on how to plan for retirement now that Social Security may not be around for too long.

First of all it is highly debatable if chatting with anyone online is "cheating."  Or if it is sending romantic messages and private pictures?  Or if doing something hanky panky on a webcam?  But some online friendships and relationships actually do turn serious and there are clues to when a man is having an online affair.

I am curious to know what you think.  Send me a Tmail with your thoughts or comment here.

Bill Mitchell, the expert who appeared on Dr. Phil, has written this useful article for women.

For the longest dating Asian women has been very common but a lot women now are checking out what it is like to date Asian men.  Of course, a lot of women start with dating Japanese men, but quite a few women are really getting into dating Asians.  We have published stories of Japanese men being dated by non-Japanese women.  African American men and Japanese women is another rising trend.  Among the women, dating Korean women, Singaporean women, and Indian women are the most common cases.  For men, it is Indian men, muslim men, and of course, Japanese men.

There is another interesting story of how an American man falls in love with an Indian woman in New York.  Another Indian woman marries an American man too.

I am still not sure if tBlog is really working or not but I have been awfully busy.  Got a lot of new articles published.

It seems that people considering gastric bypass surgery can also benefit if they have a heart condition, according to latest research.  We were also able to dig up how much does it cost to have plastic surgery.

The Vioxx trial in Texas is moving forward despite Merck's protests.

If you are like me you probably hate hiring a contractor to work around the house.  We have some tips on how to get it right or at least how not to get ripped off.

Then tips for mature women to find a younger man to date.  As long as they can be themselves, they will do just fine.

And if you are following the story of depression, Tom Cruise, and Scientology, you are probably as confused as everyone else.  This article lays out the facts for you.

Finally, with all the great car deals for us, the Korean automakers might very well be able to destroy all their competitors like GM, Ford, and Chrysler who just don't know what to do.

Last few days, it seems that our wonderful friends at tBlog are having a difficult time with the program.  That does not mean that I have not been working.  Actually helped out with a whole set of articles.

Of course starting with the sexy woman and hot couple, there was news on the Vioxx front.  The State of Texas is suing Merck in the Vioxx case.  And there is news that victims in Oregon may be able to sue Merck now that the Senate there has passed a bill.

Did you end up buying a car from GM with their employee discount?  Research shows that it was not a real deal to buy using the employee discount program.  However, since the Fed raised the interest rates, maybe it was a good idea to lock in a rate. 

In a related development, it looks as if I might get a raise now that with all the hard work that I did with MYNIPPON, the traffic has gone through the roof.