Pamela Anderson, who has been married to Tommy Lee Jones and Kid Rock before, has tied the knot yet once again to Rick Salomon in Las Vegas. She is known to do crazy things like having four weddings to Kid Rock and the marriage lasted just a few months.

Rick Salomon was the actor who is on the sex tape with Paris Hilton.

I think these marriages are for entertainment purposes only - I doubt if it means anything.

Too many of my friends have given up dating altogether saying that there are no good guys left and they always end up with losers.  Guess what?  They are wrong.  Of course, good guys go fast as anything good flies off the shelves in a store or as good students get jobs fast.

So if you are attracting only the losers something is wrong with your plan.  If good guys are gone it is because some girls have grabbed them.

Now admit to yourself that it is not the guys, it is you - so that you can do something about it. Amy Waterman has great tips on how to attract the right kind of guys.

You go to a bar, spend money buying drinks for girls, they smile at you, thank you, tell you what a nice guy you are and still you come back home and wonder how to masturbate.  At the same time you see that some of your buddies are getting laid all the time even though they don't have a great car or money or job or looks.

You can blame your bad luck or call the girls arrogant and mean, but you could be smarter and accept the reality that you may be doing something wrong.  Once you do that you will be able to do something to correct your mistakes.

We all need to learn new things and also correct our mistakes.  When I had the same problem, I realized that I was not paying attention to small things like my shoes (which women noticed) or that I came across as desperate or that I did not make eye contact the right way.

Elena, a very sexy woman herself, has some great tips on how to pick up sexy chicks. 

No big deal that a girl unzips her jeans to show her thong but those panties are cute.

Like all guys I don't look too far ahead when I am with a woman - for me the present is most important.  Women tend to think otherwise.  Even when dating casually they are thinking about marriage, kids, retirement, etc.  Kinda complicates thinks.

Read the story of a 60 year old woman. 

First of all, if someone tells you that you can last as long as a porno actor they are misleading you - the adult movies are not real, like any other movie, it is acting.  They simply shoot the movie over days or weeks and then edit it to appear as if they male actor simply does not ejaculate.

So do you think you have a problem?

Actually most people who think that they have a problem actually don't.  The best way to measure is it to look at the clock when you first start to become hard.  And then have normal sex and check the time when you actually came.  Of course there are times when you want a quickie but for a very typical lovemaking session, this time should be 20-30 minutes.  You can extend this time by having more foreplay or asking your partner to slow down but if you ejaculate as soon as you are inside her or after a minute or less or outside (that is the worst), you have a problem.

Now don't get depressed or think that your case is hopeless or that something is terribly wrong with you.  We all need to learn sex like we learn anything else in life.  Dr. Paolo Amino has a great guide on stopping premature ejaculation on your own using simple techniques. 

Earlier I wrote about how to hypnotize someone.  But several people who wrote to me said that they wanted to hypnotize themselves to be able to what they wanted - like quit a bad habit or motivate themselves to change something or achieve a goal that they have been dreaming of.

Here is a great program to learn self hypnosis. 

Did you read The Secret (the book by Rhonda Byrne) or watched the DVD or saw all the interviews on Oprah and Larry King?  I did.  Did it work for you?  Probably not; it did not for me.  Mind you, I am a very positive person and I understand the general idea behind the The Law of Attraction, but they carry it a bit too far.  No matter how much I want, I can't attract certain things.  Plus, I thought they simply stole what everyone already knows and called it as if was some kind of secret.

I think that we need something more realistic and grounded, like this great book by Valerie Dawson. 

If you have been paying way too much attention to Heidi Montag's bikini photos, you will be disappointed.  Those big breasts are not real - they are fake.  She got a boob job.

I have a few Indian friends - you know the kind that work in the office IT department.  I never paid much attention to them until one day I had a problem with my PC.  They were really helpful.  I kind of got to know them and then I sought them out to work on another project that I was working on.

Then I went out to lunch with them and one day I joined a few colleagues to go to happy hour with them.  In the beginning I thought they were arrogant but it turned out that they were just shy.  Finally one of them invited me to his home for a party and it was nice to meet other people and Indian women.  The discussion turned to Kamasutra and Tantra - two of the things India is best known for apart from answering our phone calls.

Let me say this, if you have not tried tantra, you are wasting your time - sex was never so good till I tried some of this stuff that is rooted in thousands of years of history.  If you are new to tantra, try to read this book. 

No matter what some anti-immigrant folks might say, the reality is that millions of Americans now speak Spanish and many more illegal immigrants live and work in this country speaking Spanish.  These Spanish speakers are everywhere and in most cases you do not even know if they are legal or illegal.  I mean Should I ask a hot chick if she is legal if I can pick up her in a bar?  Being able to speak Spanish at that point will definitely be a big plus.

Actually I have found that once you go beyond Hola and Como Esta, wonderful things start happening to you.  You can now simply connect better with these women.  I am sure other people can find that speaking Spanish can help them in their business or whatever else they do.

This is the Spanish language course that I found to be useful. 

You are probably wondering why you haven't gotten laid in a long time.  Maybe you blame the girls for their arrogance or you blame yourself for not being rich or handsome.  None of this is going to help.  In fact if you simply start playing the blaming game you will be losing the sex game.  At the same time, guys that you are convinced are slobs and losers are sleeping with the hottest babes.

Dude, it is all about the tricks that some men have or learn.  James Bell is a New Yorker who knows getting laid is not rocket science but you got to know the tricks.  He has a good book on the topic - easy to read and follow and I think he guarantees that you will have sex with a girl of your choice within 3 days.  It took me only a day to bag this babe that I saw every day at the Starbucks where we both stopped to buy our morning coffee but never even said hello.

Literally.  Mary Carey is any man's wet dream but if you want to masturbate why do it in a tissue.  You can do it inside Mary Carey's pussy.  Click on the photo for more details.

You can be cheap and do it with your hands, but you can be creative and try to get as close as you can to the real thing by using a Palm Pal (I love the name).  It doesn't cost more than ten bucks.  I loved it.  Click on the photo for more info.

Many people wrongly think that cops are these fat men who drink way too much coffee and eat too many donuts at Dunkin' Donuts, but the reality is that there are sexy cops too - women I mean, that wear skintight uniforms with fishnet stockings. I wonder if this naughty cop is disciplining that naughty nurse with a baton or a dildo!

There is no simple answer but one thing that I do know is that no one became rich by working hard or doing illegal things.  In the first case, you can merely hope to have an average life and in the other one, while you might get rich for a while, eventually you will end up in prison.  Plus, you may never be able to enjoy your illegal money.

Based on the rich friends that I have and my own experience becoming somewhat rich, the secret is in how you think, what you do, and how you make choices.  For instance, if you are poor right now and looking at the mess in the housing market, you have probably started to cut back and are holding on to your money.  My rich friends, on the other hand, are not only investing in real estate, they are also buying other luxurious items since there is so much on sale these days.

Adam Khoo is a self-made millionaire and he shares his secrets in this great book that you can read to find out how you can repeat the things that he did.

Increasingly I am getting fascinated by subtle whaletail or a hint of underwear visible above the jeans.  As they say, it is better to leave some things for imagination.  That is why I love this photo - it looks casual and accidental as opposed to deliberate whaletail.

I am sure that you are listening to news daily about the record rise in number of foreclosed homes. Sad it is but many people were just too greedy or stupid to buy homes that they couldn't afford. I feel sorry for those homeowners that were victims of fraud but I think the greedy ones deserved it.

Since many more people are likely to have their ARMs reset in the October to December quarter, I expect to see a lot more people lose their homes as they are unable to afford their homes.

Now what does it mean for the rest of us. Great news. If you are in the market to buy a home or want to invest in real estate, this is the time. Right now construction activity is down but eventually people will need to buy homes and within months we should see a surge in demand.

I am looking at Florida to buy a small home that I can use as a vacation home for couple of months and then sell it at a profit. If you want to make money from foreclosed homes, here is a guide for beginners.

If you need to know how so many people are taking advantage of the opportunity, read this New York Times article.

Alright, ladies, it is easy to find a date. Of course sometimes you will end up with a loser but eventually you will start hooking up with the right guys. My sense, though, is that most guys simply want to avoid commitment and marriage as long as they can till they can dump you and move on to yet another one.

From what I know if you are marriage minded, gotta go with eHarmony.

Why does she appear to be so hard to get?  Guys, it's not her, it's you.  That's why you often see that she will go with a guy whom you think is a loser while you have it all and still the girl doesn't come to you.

Tiffany Taylor has an excellent book on how to get the girl. 

This is a very interesting photo. An Asian woman with big boobs wearing only a bra and shorts (with straps of her G-string showing on the side and it is obvious she has a long tongue like Jessica Simpson) licking the nipples of a black man who for some reason has pushed his boxer shorts down to reveal his ass. I wish I was in that room to see what happens next.

This weekend I attended a wedding and guess what the couple met online.  I used to think that online dating websites was good for casual dating but looks like people are finding serious love.  This is where they met.

Perfectmatch.com - like all good websites it is not free but it is still a great deal.

OK, a bride upskirt can be a mistake and I think the Katherine McPhee upskirt was obviously accidental; so was this floral panty upskirt of a MILF.  But not every upskirt photo is by accident.  This pink panty upskirt was posed for.  So ladies and gentlemen, what do you think is going on here?  Did Kristen make a mistake or did she know exactly what she was doing?

When just another Jane shows her thong above her jeans it is no big deal.  People can be careless or slutty but when celebrities like Ashlee Olsen or Estella Warren or Amy Winehouse do a whale tail, you know that they are doing it on purpose.  Here she is pumping gas and bending to make that perfect whaletail.

After admiring this photo of girls lifting their skirts to show their panties, it was nice to have a photo in which they pushed their pants down to reveal their cute panties. It is not possible to say for sure, but I think they are wearing either string bikinis or thongs .  Or maybe even a g-string.

Once when I was alone at home I went on the Internet and joined a chat room.  The next thing I know I am talking to this really hot black woman and we were on the phone in no time.  Then we decided to hook up and while we did not have sex we did mess around.

Do you have a cheating confession too; you can make one anonymously here. 

Ladies, will you wear this dress? 

Looks too sexy to me.

Oh look she wears a thong . And we will show her thong to you. This innocent girl did not know what whaletail was so these friends helped her out by making a whale tail for her. Hey, if Ashley Olsen, Amy Winehouse, and Estella Warren can show their thongs, why can't everyone else.

Can you believe that there are men in this world who will not have sex even if their wife wants it every night - can I get her phone number, please?

When I was talking about shaving pubic hair I did not know about another technique to get rid of unwanted hair - sugaring.

And it is not limited to your privates.  If you want those silky smooth legs, you can use sugar paste on legs too. 

Now that Walmart has a new slogan it means I may have to figure out new ways to save money.  Here is one nice video about penny pinching.

Earlier I talked about how to save money on international calls. 

I am sure it feels good to touch those big racks. I wonder if I should call it a threesome or lesbian group sex. It is nice to see that so many women are now trying lesbian relationships.

Boy this couple is sexy . She looks hot in her pink bra and those green panties and looks as if she is enjoying herself as the guy prepares to push her panties down and give her a good time down there. I bet that she is hot inside and will have an orgasm.

I remember Rachel Hunter from Dancing With The Stars.  I did not pay much attention to her prior to that.  She now has a swimwear line called Lola.  Kinda kinky name!  Exactly like Just Sweet by Jennifer Lopez.

See photos of Lola swimwear on models  

Guys, have you ever had a pedicure?  Your feet feel great later - why wouldn't they?  When a hot woman (make sure that you go to a decent spa not to one of those $10 nail places run by Chinese or Koreans) massages your feet and does all kinds of things on your feet for good one hour, it ought to feel good.

Link for guys having pedicures  

I like all three of them.  Pink is always cute.  I just can't stand those plane boring bras.  Girls, get adventurous when you pick a brassiere.

More on bras  

I read that they made a bikini out of gold and Victoria's Secret has a diamond encrusted bra. 

Now there is a swimsuit made from fish skin.

What's next? 

Has anyone been watching the Gossip Girl? 

I like it; review here.

Good sexy lingerie for couples. 

Read review first here. 

Shop here.

On a nice sunny afternoon, you are hanging out in your backyard.  Well I didn't have to ask girls to show me your bras, they obliged any way; they just lifted their tops.  Thank you.  I wish they had better taste in bras they; these are kinda plain. Here are some nice bras.

Well I love the sun and the surf but I also go to the beach to watch hotties. 

Here is a suggestion on what to wear.