Linda writes, "When me and my man are in our bed he wants me to go suck his dick which is fine with me but I just can't make him cum.  So sometimes he gets upset.  He tells me not to worry and that he isn't mad but I can tell.  I love having sex with him but there's also another part I don't like the way I look, my body for one.  But he says he loves me no matter what but I just want to make him cum at least a couple times. So please help me if you can."

Let us talk one issue at a time.

   1. If your man thinks that you look fine, then you should just trust him.  And we all have minor imperfections in our body so you shouldn't really worry about those anyway.  Plus you could start some exercise to look even better.  And I have heard from many women that sexy lingerie can make any woman look awesome in bed.
   2. Now if you are sucking him and he is not cumming, my first reaction is that you are not doing it right.  Otherwise, most men will cum with a blowjob.  What I can say is that if you use your tongue on the tip that can be more effective than trying to take it in all the way.  Another trick is to use your hands and fingers to massage the base of the penis and the balls while you suck him.  If you are not already doing it, you can use your boobs to massage the dick before you use your mouth and tongue.

I hope I have given you some ideas on how to do it better.